Showing posts with label latin culture. Show all posts
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Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Preserving Latin American Christmas Traditions in New Homeland


She remembers as a little girl her mother singing the songs of the novena and the procession from one relative’s home to another back in her native Bogota, Colombia. Now living in Miami, 35-year-old Liliana Vanderbiest will relive one her of childhood traditions when she and friends bring the practice of the novena, daily prayers nine days before Christmas, to the United States.

“It seems like my generation is like the first generation who has grown up without these traditions and needs to really work to revisit them before they’re lost with time,” said Vanderbiest, a financial analyst in Miami. “Like a lot of people who have come from Latin American countries and have been here a long time, we either forget the traditions from back home or are just too busy to go back to them.”

Indeed, many Latin American countries have their own traditional observances around the Christmas holidays, most of them deeply rooted in Catholic traditions. And many newly immigrated Latinos have let observances like the novena or la posada, a Central American tradition where neighbors act as pilgrims and travel from home to home to sing and pray, fall by the wayside as they acculturate to North American Christmas traditions.

    Like a lot of people who have come from Latin American countries and have been here a long time, we either forget the traditions from back home or are just too busy to go back to them.

- Liliana Vanderbiest from Miami

Some, like Vanderbiest, who is making it a point this year to do the novena with a newly immigrated friend from South America, are making concerted efforts to bring those traditions to the U.S.

Of all the different Latin American Christmas-time traditions, la posada is probably the most widely recognized, especially in areas of the U.S. where there are large concentrations of Mexicanos.

In Sacramento, Calif., La Raza Galeria is holding the first large organized posada events in the city’s history this year. Executive Director Marie Acosta said the organization was focusing on Mexican traditions because of the predominant concentration of immigrants from there in that city.

She expected a few dozen to attend the first posada, which reenacts the pilgrimage of Mary and Joseph from Bethlehem, but around 150 people took part.

“We discovered that there is a need and a desire and a huge gap in the community for anything that redeems cultural heritage, particularly around the religious observances this time of year,” Acosta said. “It’s definitely a sign that our culture and heritage has not received its due diligence for whatever reasons. It’s good to see such an outpouring of support and participation from the younger faces in the crowd.”

Maite Velez-Couto, 32, fondly recalls the parrandas during her childhood in Puerto Rico. Since moving to Miami though, her Christmas traditions have been limited to making cultural dishes and serving them at work.

“Back home, for the parrandas, every household had to be prepared to receive people at any time of the evening and be fully stocked with rum and music,” Velez-Couto said. “It’s a great tradition, but something that would be kind of tough to pull off here.
“I think in some form or another we do try to keep some traditions alive whether it’s in singing the songs or other religious experiences, but food and music are the easiest ways to keep the traditions going,” she said.

In Fort Collins, Colo., north of Denver, El Museo de las Tres Colonias is observing the posada for the sixth year and has seen participation growing steadily over the years. While the celebration caters to the many Mexican immigrants in the area, the museo is making special efforts to incorporate traditions from other Latin American countries because of new demands for them.

“The community is really hungry for something cultural and sadly the opportunities to celebrate the traditions they were used to back in their home countries just aren’t as easy to find here,” said Betty Aragon, director of the museo. “We do see a lot of kids from Nicaragua and Guatemala who want to incorporate what they had in their native countries, which we think is wonderful to embrace. This gives us the chance to go back to our roots, something that many forget to do when they get here because they’re so busy trying to fit into a new country.”

Manny Gonzales is a Denver-based writer and communications professional. 


Monday, June 13, 2011

Eight Things He Needs to Know to Date a Latina

Face it: There are just some things that men—especially NON-Latino men—need to know when it comes to dating a Latina. Like, trying to pick one of us up with: "Mami, ven aquí/I want to be your papi chulo, can't you see?" will get you clowned. (You are not my child and you are also not Diddy).

When The Huffington Post recently did a piece on How to Date an Indian (Advice for the Non-Indian), we decided to put our own list together. Check it out and let us know if we missed anything, and if you think we hit the mark with our tips! 

If the key members of our family don’t speak English, it’s up to you to learn some basic Spanish.

Yes, we are intense and dramatic and loud. Embrace it.

This will never change. In fact, it is bound to get worse with age—which is probably ok, since your hearing won’t be so great by then. Consider it a win-win.
Let’s be real, if Abuelita has been here longer than you’ve been alive and she lives in NYC, Chicago, Houston, Miami or LA, she’s never learning English. Not ever. You don’t have to recite a Pablo Neruda poem; just something like: “Gracias, Doña Flor. No sé qué le puso a su sofrito hoy, pero está más sabroso que nunca. Por cierto, su cutis está espectacular.” Do that, and you’ll be IN for life.

Learn some moves

Now, we’re not talking about doing the lambada or shaking your bon bon like it’s 1999 (cause frankly, that’s not very manly). Just act like you know what you’re doing on the dance floor, loosen up those hips and take the lead as you spin us around at the club. And if you really want to earn cool points, learn about the musicians that matter to us. Start with the easy, one-word names like Celia, Juanes or Shakira, pre-Laundry Service.

The response to the question, "Would you like some more lechón?" is always "yes."
There is no quicker way to offend mom, abuela or tia than to refuse the food they prepared with so much TLC. And if you’re a vegetarian, this may never work out. Plain and simple.

Don’t rush us.

Here’s a very simple-yet-fundamental truth about dating a Latina: It’s important for us to look good, even if we’re going to the supermarket (as Eva Mendes once said: “Sweatpants are the number one reason for divorce”). This means we are going to take a little longer getting ready. If you’re worried about people thinking your girl is inconsiderate, don’t worry, because any and everyone who knows us is used to the fact that we are going to be late. If this is a huge problem, try telling us we have to be somewhere one hour or so before we actually have to be there. This way we’ll only be 30 minutes late.

If you don’t believe in God, say, “I’m more spiritual than religious.”



That’s it. Trying to argue with our Catholic mamás over your existential theories about a Superior Being or why Pope Benedict is evil is a battle you won’t win. Trust. Before you know it, she’ll be taking you to the local padre, throwing holy water in your face and forcing you to read entire passages from the Old Testament.

Don’t ever refer to us in the same way you would a food object.

Save the words spicy, exotic and caliente for your next restaurant review. Referring to us as "hot tamales" was cool right around the same time Salma was in Fools Rush In. Try busting out an ol’ SAT word instead, like “pulchritudinous.”

Our families will never give us space.

Ana Ortiz recently told Latina a story about looking good for the family even when she was about to give birth! “When my husband [musician Noah Lebenzon, who is not Latino] and I were getting ready for the hospital, I had asked him, ‘What earrings should I give birth in?’ He was like, ‘What are you talking about?’ I was like, ‘I have to wear earrings. Everyone will be there!’ Then after I gave birth, the room was packed: My cousins Papo and Adriana, Aunt Mirna, Raquel, Toñito. I was like, ‘See? This is why I wanted to wear earrings to the hospital!’” We totally get it.

Source Angie Romero


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